My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 7

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Hey guys, I've been reading and thinking through all of your responses. Thank you.

LH, do you recommend people forsake their vows to accomplish their R goals? Is there no other way? I think about this a lot.

Ginger, the whole recurring theme you mentioned stuck with me last week because it is true. I've got plenty to consider here and of course I am open to hearing more. Also, to be clear, I am nowhere near being ready to have a child and made that clear to hear as well.

Curtis, you're making me remember to get out and GAL more, especially once this covid slows down.

IW, thank you.

Neffer, I need to be putting myself first a little more, not in a selfish way but in a way to get my needs met and be able to put my best foot forward every day.

Cwarrior, I think I should get the tile app and system. I like that a lot. But no, I haven't been focused on validating much. Maybe that's extending arguments. My W and her family are super enmeshed, so having her parents and sister around all the time isn't bad for her. And it's not horrible for me either but I don't want roommates.