You and you family have had quite the day. Any time you aren't sure how to do something, look the task up on U-Tube. They've got great informational step-by-step aids to help you w/your various projects, i.e., even jumping car batteries.
I hope the rest of your day is calmer for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
