Hey all, I'm sure I messed up a bit here, as I got drawn into a relationship talk with her after 6 weeks of no contact. I feel like a did a pretty good job at validating her feelings, and also owning up to my own mistakes. She owned up to her mistakes as well, but basically just said she doesn't think we are compatible, we are way to different.
So, then I said I feel like that is her way of telling me she is still seeing another man, and if her heart is with someone else then there is no way she will feel compatible with me. She sent me back a pretty angry message, saying it just shows how selfish I am, and that I'm acting like the past 7 months is solely because of her affair and none of her feelings leading up to it. That I just have to always place the blame elsewhere. Except we had literally just talked about how that wasn't the case.
Anyway, just wondering if I should even respond to that, or just let it go, it's hard not defend myself...
