Hi KTO, consider carefully your reasons for rushing a return home when she’s only been NC for 2-3 days. I mean, my GF and I aren’t back to our normal living routine and it’s been 4+ weeks—and we have no affairs and are still rushing. Not as much as our prior extremely rushed failed attempt, of course. Lesson learned. A 1-3 month period for her to prove changes are consistent and work on whatever led her to stray may be less satisfying in the short term, but more likely to take you where you want to wind up. A BD2 would be easier with her out than in. Wishing you the best, whatever your choice.
