I'm finally sticking up for myself a little. I'm sick of tip toeing around him, being nice, going out of my way in my own house for this man who cheated on me, We signed our D papers! YOU didn't complete them! You've left us!, your back & wish you we're in fantasy land with ow.
It is YOUR house, it is YOUR space. Definitely try to take that power back. You don't need to text him your movements. He has the garage! Like you said, if he is so inconvenienced being there, he can go else where.
Originally Posted by CanBird
After D3 & I had dinner (00 cooked..never eats with us..), he chatted with me about whatever... he was on his way to the mancave and said."Babe...you can just...yada yada yada". BABE? Yes. He called me that. We call D3 that & yes, he calls ow that. I pretended not to notice. Funny.
My H does this too. He cooks for us and even asks me what we want to eat ahead of time sometimes. and then he'd either make it and bring it over or make it here in my kitchen. but he almost never eats with us. I do suspect that due to depression he's just not eating regularly anyway. but it is still very strange.
