Still making progress. I spoke to my W about how she was in contact with him by relying to his text and telling him that she is where she wants to be, at home. I said that she shouldn't even respond to him if he reaches out. She agreed. She has given me her phone password so I can go into when I want. I looked quickly the other day and saw nothing. She continues to say she was so wrong and she was stupid to do what she did.
Yesterday she asked me if I was in contact with any of my ex's and I explained that after BD, I joined Facebook for the first time. When I did that, a lot of old friends, including ex's reached out and started messaging me. These convo's were completely innocent and were months ago. However, my W got very upset and was saying I was inappropriate. I really wasn't and offered for her to look at the messages to calm her nerves about it. She refused. I understand that she's jealous, which she as admitted, and part of me likes that. But trying to make me the bad guy because I had innocent convo's with old friends and yes, an ex, while we were separated and she was seeing the OM is absolutely irritating. I tried explaining that to her and she wanted none of it. It was our first fight since we began to R.
She's incredibly jealous and insecure. I understand that it looks bad but she had left me for the OM. Then I have innocent, hey how are you, type of convos with them and I'm the bad guy? I would NEVER do that now. At the time, was I really wrong?
Other than that things are good. We are having lunch with her parents today. I'm at the point I'm going to say she can move home but I'm waiting for our MC appointment on Wednesday to discuss with her.
