Glad that your area is doing much better then ours. Common joke when our president got in was “time to move to Canada”. Its been really sloppy and messy in the US. Embarrassingly handled - I’m not sure if someone could do a worse job but not surprised to be honest.
Anyway, I wanted to respond to predicting who will be a cheater. I don’t think there is any way to predict. Obviously, if they cheated on someone else with you - you know eventually they will cheat on you. If they have a history of cheating that’s a huge red flag. But other then that what do we have to go on? There’s different types of cheaters as well.
When I met my ex husband I never felt head over heels or intense chemistry. I went for him believe it or not because I felt like he was stable and wouldn’t cheat. He wasn’t romantic, he was not a womanizer. I felt like he was shy, humble, and honest. He had tons of asbergers qualities that I felt safe with when it came to cheating.
Maybe one factor is that they tend to be entitled. My ex was always late - and even made comments like “they can wait for me”. It was always about him first. Maybe that’s a predictor for a cheater. But a blander less passionate no drama relationship isn’t a safety net. Trust me - I lived that.
Best of luck and glad to see your doing well in all of this.
