My H gave up all his hobbies when he started his MLC.
When he left he took furniture/household things from our second home only. He said he wanted the family home left just how it is. Than would try hard to never go in family home. He’d wait outside or if he had to go in he raced out as soon as possible. All hunched over and head down. Insane to see.
He has never asked for anything in the family home. I had him pack his personal stuff in boxes to take with him or store in our basement. He has never asked for any of his personal stuff he left behind.
Today I get a text from H ‘I am working on family tree (one of his past hobbies) and my research is in...how best for me to get that?’
I don’t know what to do. My instinct says wait a day to respond. And than let him have his stuff. I just don’t know.
