Yes he has a lot of unresolved issues and until he addresses some of them ? it may be a while
sometimes a MLCer will come back only to leave again because the work is not done they run...from the issues and the pain
We have to decide how long we want to give this I moved on and Im grateful I did MY x is a real mess
Some get addicted to drugs, prescriptions, gambling, affairs, spending, vacationing ect.... they seek a life of fun and will run with it until the pain smacks them in the face again
then they may try other addictions to mask the pain. few really recover and it could take a long time but there is always hope
MY best advise would be to move on into a new life , work on yourself, clear your issues and watch from a distance
You dont have to date .. you can create a single fulfilled life and wait as long as you like this is totally up to each individual and many stand for many years
The ow helps ease the pain...at least for a few years they usually pick a loser to rescue..someone less in some ways than you or them
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow