Scout, you're such an inspiration. Honestly. you are one of the strongest people I think I've ever known (not that I know you but I feel like I do.)

The way you put S2 first-- like being able to (IN THE MOMENT!!) tamp down the 110% natural feelings about S2 mentioning the OW and being positive and even-keeled about it for him... that is such the right thing to do and yet I feel like many of us when confronted with that same situation would not have risen to it like you did. I don't know that I would have. You're such a bada$$. I wanna be you when I grow up. wink

Have you figured out your S2 and the bed yet? If not, you might try a toddler sized sleep sack. Worked wonders for mine since they can't pull their legs apart enough to climb out.


Me (46) H (42)
M:14 T:18, D9 & D11
4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs
9/20 - present: R and piecing