I think MLC is catchy, so all the friends getting D-could not help a person who is already confused
You wont know if what he is doing is a hopeful sign toward reconnection or just an act of kindness to relieve guilt and open a door for friendship
I would lean back..If he is thinking of reconnecting, I believe he will find you,,he will find a reason to text you
if he initiates contact, I would take my time and respond as a new friendship keep it light and fun keep expectations at minus zero I would not contact him for anything
learn about feminine energy and see if it resonates with you lean back ask nothing go about your life energetically let go..try not to obsess find happiness, hobbies and self care join groups online
Its been a long time you have been at this, so you have already let go
let him feel the energy is focused on a new life,,a new start ect.. a new you
even if it is reconnection, it seems to have lots of bumps and can take a very long time decide how long you want to be here
Many Mlcers stay with the oW for a long time...some never leave
I think much of it depends on what happened with his parents and if one of them had a MLC and ever came back to M then I think chances are better for reconciliation
just my thoughts
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow