Hi

I think MLC is catchy, so all the friends getting D-could not help a person who is already confused

You wont know if what he is doing is a hopeful sign toward reconnection or just an act of kindness
to relieve guilt and open a door for friendship

I would lean back..If he is thinking of reconnecting, I believe he will find you,,he will find a reason to text you

if he initiates contact, I would take my time and respond as a new friendship
keep it light and fun
keep expectations at minus zero
I would not contact him for anything

learn about feminine energy and see if it resonates with you
lean back
ask nothing
go about your life
energetically let go..try not to obsess
find happiness, hobbies and self care
join groups online

Its been a long time you have been at this, so you have already let go

let him feel the energy is focused on a new life,,a new start ect.. a new you

even if it is reconnection, it seems to have lots of bumps and can take a very long time
decide how long you want to be here

Many Mlcers stay with the oW for a long time...some never leave

I think much of it depends on what happened with his parents and if one of them had a MLC and ever came back to M
then I think chances are better for reconciliation

just my thoughts


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow