My lawyer sent the proposal over, and she is mulling it now, but it sounds like she's agreeable to it. She was awfully quiet yesterday, so I'm guessing it was because of that.
I did find out she has another account she didn't disclose. Or rather, I confirmed she did. She sent statements for a Roth IRA, but her paycheck showed a Roth 401K deduction that was much more than what was going into the IRA. I figured there was likely another Roth somewhere. Then she got a statement in the mail last week from a Roth account, and it was a different place than the other statement I had. Then, I went back through our taxes and found a statement from her employer a couple years ago, which listed her regular 401k, employer contribution, profit sharing, and the roth 401k and the balance at that time. I did some math, and assumed a similar contribution from her paychecks from the time of that statement to when she filed, and did a split of all of our assets to see what she'd owe me. It was higher than what my lawyer suggested last time. But, I still went with a lower number I was comfortable with. While legally, I may be eligible for more (including about 18 months of maintenance on top of what I mentioned), I don't feel entitled to it. She's worked hard and more than carried her share of the financial responsibility.
I'm still baffled by what she feels she's getting out of this. Apparently, a piece of paper from the government and the loss of a bunch of money is going to make her feel better. *shrug*
