I just try to update weekly to kinda to purge and kinda to let my supports here know I'm keeping my eye on them as much as they are keeping an eye on me. Nothing much has changed. Other than a big blow up with D16 and her wonderful bio mom things have been very calm, quiet and well very status quo. The only thing that has changed is that he's now acknowledging and going out of his way to say hello to my friends on social media and irl. We're from the midwest it's a thing to say "oh say hey to so and so for me." This is a thing that had stopped entirely when he made the decision that our friends were taking sides. D17 had a chat with me that she's really starting to move past her anger toward him. She's feeling like she's moving toward real forgiveness. She knows he's trying and she appreciates it. I wish it was something I could share with him. I hope I can some time in the near future. I think he'd like to know that. But I won't be opening any can of worms I can keep closed as our state's self quarantine order was just extended 5 more weeks. I anticipate 5 more weeks of status quo. I hope every one is doing well and staying sane.
