In the previous page of this thread, you mentioned that your W is controlling and also that you feared conflict. What I know about a WAS, is that they will use fear to their advantage.
Not only would you be doing the right thing by being aggressive in your pursuit of 50/50 custody, but you would also be doing a significant 180 from what was the norm in your MR.
These situation are like a bully dynamic. The WAS plays the role of the bully and the LBS plays the role of the target. Once the target stands up to the bully, the dynamic changes and the bullying usually stops. The target might get their tails handed to them, but they just gained respect.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
