I have never posted to you, however you need to go for 50/50 custody with your children. They are only children once and their childhood will go fast. You have that right as their father.
I'd rather give it my best shot and fail, than allow fear to cause me to make a choice I'd regret. To me, your time with your children is priceless. It seems that you fear dragging your kids through the legal mud. I get it. That being said, they will know how important they are to you by doing what is right.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
