You don’t negotiate with terrorists. 50/50 non-negotiable. If you go to court you go to court.
My L sent a partial settlement offer last week to try to resolve this issue. It is completely reasonable. I assume it will be rejected or just expire, but I'm trying to make headway.
I understand now why so many dads back down. I'm not going to do that.
It helps to come here and describe what's going on with me emotionally. I write it out and recognize that I need to be stronger and more independent and move on.
