May where did 9 weeks go!! That’s a long time and good to hear that things are heading in the right direction. It is an incredibly testing time, living in each other’s pockets. At the same time, you seem to have space around you to breathe - in your head if nothing else! I can understand still having the unanswered questions about the A but it sounds like you are doing a great job of boxing that off temporarily until the timing is better to open up discussions. It will be at the back of his mind too, because he knows he can’t escape from it, that it will need to be tabled one day. He is healing too (as much as he doesn’t deserve to, lol) but you being supportive and not pressuring him will be helping him, and hopefully make him realise what an incredible woman you are for standing by him and giving him time and space. You are so strong.

Sending hugs x


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020