A little lost - possible MFC wife

[Tmason]

Got it thanks. I did read them when I first got on the site. I'm working on some, it is hard to avoid others.
W love language is gifts and words of encouragement. Should I not tell her how good she looks? That's something that was missing before, so shouldn't I start? Remember I'm new to this, I'm trying to not push her away, but show her what can be.
I usually do the laundry anyway, but after BD, I was putting away her laundry for her. She asked me to stop, so I did. Now I still do the laundry, but leave it on her side of the bed. I asked her if there were any other things I was doing that was pushing her away. She didn't say anything else, so I've continued with complimenting her.