Thank you LH,

I think she knows I'm not interested in friendship and knowing how she is, I think she just doesn't want to do any of the hard work...yet. She's just not there yet. Hasn't hit rock bottom etc etc.

Ginger, the app certainly doesn't require another phone. But it's only available on IOS which means you need an iphone. I“ve always preferred Android and didn“t feel like switching so I got an iphone that I use just for the app. It's not exclusively a dating app but also for networking. You can set your status to "only interested in friends and networking. But I haven't done that, I joined that community with the purpose of meeting an dating women.

That said, no dating app as far as I am aware of asks you if you are married, separated etc etc. I would not have been married if she had agreed to the divorce I filed back in September last year so I see no problem dating just because of a piece of paper says we are married.


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019