Originally Posted by Sandi
Does she..........or better yet, do you understand this is contact with OM? I thought she was going to block him. Maybe I'm thinking about someone else.

You have the right situation

Originally Posted by kto626
I told her I need proof that NC has happened.. I'm not going to force it. I told her what needs to happen so I'll just sit back and wait. I told her clearly NC. Nothing changes until then..

So when she comes to me and says she's ended contact:
1. Prove it
2. Let me see your phone
3. Go to MC and set up expectations moving forward.
4. She continues IC (which she has now gone to a few weeks in a row).


Hi kto626, Sandi has a point--you've compromised on your key condition for reconciliation. That's at least worth a yellow caution flag! I have no idea what's next for you. I hope it's all or mostly good.