Kindly - I'm glad my words spoke to you. Taking the high road and not compromising our values or beliefs, or erode who we are deep down can only ultimately be good for us and give us that peace we all want. I still have difficult times, but try to quickly regroup. Today was one of them, as H and I had several e-mail exachanges about D20. It's upsetting to me how he is blaming her for their rift. Still taking no responsbility. I engaged with him on this but looking back, regret it. He's just not there yet. I will let it go now. I must let it go. For me, but also for H.
Believe - I hear you on the struggle for non-judgement and the need to fix things. I think most LBSs share that struggle. However, you have insight, and are doing well.
My struggle continues. My impatience at the process reared it's ugly head today. But, going into the weekend now, so time for a long bike ride and a walk in the preserve. That always gives me peace.
