Just spoke to W. Bit of a non DB-dialogue (except that it is a huge 180 for me to take this conflict): Basically said this: You have a new boyfriend. We live in this house together. We are not yet separated. (physically) Do you think its ok that I find remaining of sex toy order?
W - No, of course not. Me - Also, so I am clear. It is not ok for OM to ever set his foot in this house. It is not ok for him to meet the kids before you have talked to me. W - He would never do that. He doesn't want to meet the kids. W - What do you want to know. Me - I dont want to know anything. I am just making sure you know how I view things. Me - So when did daycare want to meet us? W - Lets write instead (messaging). Then she went out to the cabin.
Last edited by Mumin; 04/16/2007:05 PM.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021