Just spoke to W. Bit of a non DB-dialogue (except that it is a huge 180 for me to take this conflict):
Basically said this:
You have a new boyfriend.
We live in this house together. We are not yet separated. (physically)
Do you think its ok that I find remaining of sex toy order?

W - No, of course not.
Me - Also, so I am clear. It is not ok for OM to ever set his foot in this house. It is not ok for him to meet the kids before you have talked to me.
W - He would never do that. He doesn't want to meet the kids.
W - What do you want to know.
Me - I dont want to know anything. I am just making sure you know how I view things.
Me - So when did daycare want to meet us?
W - Lets write instead (messaging).
Then she went out to the cabin.

Last edited by Mumin; 04/16/20 07:05 PM.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021