H isn't getting any IC. His high school friend who he lives with now periodically is a "therapist"? I question his actual credentials but whatever. Knowing my H is married this friend and his wife are ecstatic over my H with OW... they are all friends... he is getting advice - thinking his friend is in therapist mode... He is getting 100% encouragement in what he is currently doing.
I cannot control H, or his friends or what any of them say or do (none of whom have met me).
