Thanks. Yes, I'm working on me, the only thing I can control. Counselling has really helped me see my blind spots. I saw this the other day on another MLC site - time + consistency + trustworthy = trust. This only way to "win her back" is showing that I've changed and am working on depression and being a better husband.
H (me): 48 W: 43 M: 23 T: 24 D:21, S:19, S:15 BD 2/2020 Still living together and going to MC
