WW post D (Thanks BenB part 3)

[Mumin]

Spent last with brother and his GF, had a great time!
This morning while still in bed W called but I didnt pick up.
Like 2 hrs later she writes that if she calls it will be about the kids.
Sure doesnt want to speak to me...
Anyway, apparently the ppl at daycare want to have a sitdown with both of us and tell us what they have observed and to understand more about our plan forward.
I basically answered "thats good".

Then she wrote that apparently D5 has been not so active and spending mroe time alone at daycare and D2 has been having more mood swings.
This makes me both very sad and angry to hear. After some time talking to my brother yesterday I felt much better given the recent sex toy thing but new things keep coming up.
As mentioned post D will be a rough time...

Of course this was going to happen with the kids but I thought it would come later.
Not sure what I should say to W tonight when we meet.
Will be hard to not be angry given these 2 recent things so I will need to prepare my "stance" on things.

"It is good that the personell is taking this seriously and want to be prepared/involved. I can meet with them at X, Y Z times..."

If she asks how do you feel about this. "Its really a shame that they have to go through this. Not soemthing I ever wanted for them"

If she brings up the sex toy. "I dont want to hear any more about that. Be more discreet."