Taz, Thanks for updating us. It does seem like your W is peeking out of the tunnel, but we all have to be careful with zero expectations. Only believe 50% of what they do... and nothing of what they say (unless followed up with actions).
We all have to accept the kindness from our MLCers with gratitude. It may be gone in the next instant as their feelings (fear, confusion, loneliness, anger, etc.) rise up and force them back on their solitary path.
I re-read DR the pages on Midlife and 180 again. It reminded me again and again that patience is going to be tested. That we have to protect ourselves with detachment, no contact or smart contact, and continuing to get a life and take care of ourselves... and our kids.
It seems like you are doing gang busters with your kids. Teaching your son a useful skill will build his confidence and also your bonding. What a great thing to do! Good for you!
Take care and keep on keeping on. Blessings
W (me): 50 H: 46 M: 21 T: 25 S:17 D:15 BD 11/2019
Fate whispers to the warrior, "You can not withstand the storm" And the warrior whispers back, "I am the storm." ~Unknown
