Please go back and read LITB’s words over and over and over.

Your last post was still focused on your need for validation from him. You need to keep practicing and keep reading. Improving yourself is not for HIM. It’s for you. Try to me conscious of that. It is not attractive when you try to make yourself attractive for the purpose of someone else noticing. Men sense that. And I’m not talking physically. I talking emotionally.

Guys, back me up!