I think you did fine. You’re not pathetic you are just scared. Your afraid of the unknown and that’s ok. It’s normal. Once the dust settles you realize that it isn’t as much about your husband as you think. It’s more about the uncertainty in your life.
You’ll be fine. It just takes time.
There is a lot of uncertainly in my life - I accept that to a moderate degree.
But, as far as its not about my H as much as I think? I mean yeah the world isn't going to stop turning because he left me. And, I'm not the only one who made mistakes... I just wish he could have let me get my sh*t together. We had some really happy times... some feel good times... we were a good team.
Its about me. I know I need to have the attitude I'm the WAS and leave him in my dust.
