KK when a spouse is unhappy they have the propensity to think their spouse is the reason but that is rarely the case. They are unhappy with themselves but it takes them a really long time to figure that out.
This was the case for both my walkaway partner.. and me.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I think my H gave up on telling me no a long time ago... it was just easier to give me what I wanted. The irony is after BD I told him I wish he would have told me NO more often. Go figure.
That's insightful and I agree. Poor boundaries can build resentment.
