KK when a spouse is unhappy they have the propensity to think their spouse is the reason but that is rarely the case. They are unhappy with themselves but it takes them a really long time to figure that out.
Originally Posted by KitCat
Well perhaps I can at least confuse him... maybe that's what happened Sunday..
What?????
Originally Posted by KitCat
When he didn't take me on the bike ride when he left with the bike last week. I didn't whine... I didn't beg... I didn't guilt him over. I was 'okay' went about my business like water down a ducks back.... THAT is a 180 for me. .
Ok so if this was your typical behavior you can now see this was part of the problem.
Originally Posted by KitCat
Maybe the physical changes and the 180's are sucking him back my direction?.
