You’re in a tough spot. I think it hurts your detachment so you should avoid her as much as possible. Your definitely in the FZ and I don’t see you getting out anytime soon.
Fair enough, and to be clear, I'm not intentionally running into her.
I do recall her asking me a while back what I would do if we were to ever split. I can't remember the context, but I told her that I'd be devastated and that I don't think that we could be friends, because seeing her would represent such heartache. Maybe she's testing that, I don't know.
I do think it's a good thing that she's reminded that I can still make her laugh, and that we have a natural chemistry. The corollary being I don't think it's a positive thing for her to have negative feelings about me, as an example. But I understand and buy the logic that a lot of what's happening right now might be reinforcing the idea to her that we could have a relationship on a friend level.
