Originally Posted by LH19
Oh boy I knew when he offered the motorcycle ride it would throw you for a loop. This is TMI but my ex was provided me oral services 6 days before she moved out. Now that beats a motorcycle ride lol. Guess what? 21 months later we’re still divorced and she hasn’t looked back. Why? Not because she hates me but because she is chasing happiness. She wasn’t happy being married to me so it’s on to the next thing, then probably the next thing and so on.

I’m not saying to cater to him but what I am saying is to be consistently strong.


Got it!!!!

Well... H already moved out a month ago... why come back if happiness is elsewhere? I know... doesn't matter... same thing... I'm just superbly fantastic at grasping for staws and overthinking <<<<< those are MY SUPERPOWERS... what are yours?? smile

Ok. Getting my Sh*t together... he will drop off totes. He hasn't asked to pick anything else up but I bet he does when he is at front door.

Here's to keeping real. Looking smokin' hot and rocking a sweet little shirt showing some serious cleavage. Let's hope he drives away wondering what he is leaving behind.