Soooo you text your H and let him know you found his X. Now you’re thinking about ignoring his texts. Do you see where it can be confusing to your H?
Am I though?
I texted over a business matter - information.
He texted last night about if he could drop off totes - I responded 40min with "ok"
He didn't follow up with me about when he would be here - and he hasn't shown up. If I choose to disengage and not respond to text about he forgot, he made other plans, etc. I just don't want any part of that.
We agreed last Sunday at 2pm for him to get some of his stuff. If I wasn't home on Sunday - that would not have gone over well with him.
So am I confusing him??? Or do I just need him to see I'm not sitting around as Plan B. You don't show when you say you will... I've got a life.
I guess that is how I see it, but LH if you think this is still confusing to H what would you suggest when he tells me tomorrow that something came up... I just reply 'hey no problem... I'm sitting here all the time, show up when you will?"
