The other thing I forgot to mention, the next two months or so are going to be a tough period for me.
We had met at our college's version of Homecoming, which would have been happening this weekend. Our first date was about eight years ago. We also got in a huge fight a year ago on our way to the Homecoming event which feels in hindsight like the straw that broke the camel's back, given the BD a month later and the S a month after that. We also got married in May, so yeah, the April-May-June stretch is tough mentally.