The DB is not just about trying to save your marriage, but to help you navigate the path that you are on. Nothing is set in stone. You do what works and what doesn't...well you set that aside. Just like the stages of MLC and the grieving process and the time lines...Nothing is set in stone.
No where does DB say that you can't care about your spouse/partner. You can love them from afar, treat them w/compassion and as always...did deeper for patience.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
