UNLESS... you can separate yourself from hoping for a particular outcome. Right now I sense your heart is holding on and your head is telling you to move on. When things are confusing in that way, maybe best to sit still until your internal tug-of-war calms down.
Things will eventually settle and become clearer.
Good advice. Yes, I'm still pretty firmly in the camp of wanting to R. I'll keep waiting it out, and working on me.