He's still not fully himself. I've been watching him slowly grow back into the person he used to be. Every day he's a little more the person I used to know, but he's still not that original we've talked about, he's still that photocopy. He's like a really nice laser color copy but on regular paper not photo paper...lol. I don't know if I'm going to get a truthful answer to any of my questions. I have no desire to have a fruitless conversation with a person who isn't invested in me enough to be completely transparent.
Wayfarer, just want to say I also appreciate reading your insights. I read this post the other day and the notion of an H being a "photocopy" of themselves is a good analogy. I feel the same way - my H is a little more similar to the man he used to be but still not himself. I just find myself struggling with the why; why has he changed, why has he had to paint me as such the villain.
Anyway, I just wanted to say I enjoy your posts and agree with May, you are level headed and it makes me feel better to read your reflections on your sitch. Thanks for posting!
