Its all well and good to give it some time unless you are in an emotionally abusive situation, or you are facing an alimony threshold. Sounds to me that both of these apply to you. I think you are on the right track and suggest you continue to push forward at least until you are absolutely sure the alimony clock stops.
And if you are fairly confident that this will end up in divorce, I highly recommend that you push through as quickly as possible. Make this your mission. Because protracted limbo and a drawn out divorce with a WW always end up much, much worse for the BH.
