I just want to commend you on how you are handling your situation. This is all about her and her issues. Unfortunately if it is MLC it is a 5-7 year journey.
I agree with LH19. I have read MLC can last up to 10 yrs, maybe longer. That's got to be very discouraging! I know LBH's are hesitate in admitting (to themselves) their W is wayward. The good news is that a W can come out of her waywardness much faster than MLC.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
