Hi B6! As peacetoday said it is easy for us to look at what “we did or didn’t do” during this time. I think taking those thoughts and changing them into what would I like to improve about myself (if anything) or focusing on positive changes that we want to make FOR US and not for someone else becomes very important. You are so caring and empathic which makes putting our own feelings first difficult. A little self love is good for all of us!!! (((((((GROUP HUG))))))))