Just found packaging of a butt-blug in the trash. Just lying there for me to see.
Ouch, that's harsh.
Originally Posted by Mumin
"Im sure you can be more discreet than this."
I see nothing "wrong" with asking her to please be more discreet, if you think your feelings matter to her. It sounds like you've realized you can't control this, since your stick (selling sooner) is a carrot to her.
Originally Posted by "Mumin"
After having talked to the kids... Me-Do you want to talk? W-I don't know. Maybe. Do you? Me-Well not now.
As for how you could've ended this, it's strange to ask if she wants to talk, and when she says maybe, to indicate you don't want to. ::shrug:: "I've got a few minutes." or ::shrug:: "I'm free after seven."