I don’t want a divorce, but I just feel like I do not have a choice in the matter. I wish I had the patience to just wait and wait, but I don’t...
That's up to you. As long as she doesn't file, I think you do have a choice. If filing for D is based on a boundary line, religious or moral reasons.....or whatever, that's fine, and I'm not arguing it. But don't say you have no choice.
Look, I understand not being patient enough. Sometimes it comes with maturity, so don't give up while you are still young.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
