WOW Curtis, that is some scary stuff. Yes I definitely think you are doing the right thing in not responding to OM3. And yes I agree that it is very likely he's trying to break the two of you up in the hopes she'll go crawling back to him. Do you have a security system and cameras? If not, look into it ASAP. I highly recommend Ring, it's relatively cheap and really good. I have several of the indoor and outdoor cameras tied to the alarm system and the image quality is fantastic and the motion detection notifications are instant on my phone. Great peace-of-mind. Hopefully your W follows through on the restraining order. Once it's in place call the police immediately if she pulls another stunt like the driveway thing. Is W living with you now or still in her other place? I'm thinking she should not go back there for quite a while. If she's not under your roof then she should probably get a hotel room somewhere. Never underestimate people's propensity for violence.
