The amount of destruction a unfaithful spouse can do can never be underestimated. I’m sorry your boys had to go thru that last night.
It’s amazing how so many around them can see it and yet they are surprised and never envisioned it could happen to them. Eerily similar to when the LBS is blindsided with the BD and others may have seen it coming.
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I have to be honest with you. When I read that last sentence I wasn’t sure who you were talking about. That speaks volumes.
Good one and point taken. I need to once again decide if I am even interested in R.
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I thought that was sweet of her to offer you a divorce and say that you can have it. Like she or anybody has a choice. As for your question. Yes I would say this is the definition of rock bottom but something tells me this may be a typical Saturday night.
I hope this is her final rock bottom. Almost a year and a half in limbo. If she has a relapse or leaves again, her offer would be very hard to pass up.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20