The amount of destruction a unfaithful spouse can do can never be underestimated. I’m sorry your boys had to go thru that last night.
I have to be honest with you. When I read that last sentence I wasn’t sure who you were talking about. That speaks volumes.
I thought that was sweet of her to offer you a divorce and say that you can have it. Like she or anybody has a choice.
As for your question. Yes I would say this is the definition of rock bottom but something tells me this may be a typical Saturday night. If she hasn’t learned a lesson from this then she probably never will.
Protect your boys at all cost Curtis. My heart goes out to those boys.