U,

I’m going start by saying that I truly don’t want to discount your feelings and you are certainly entitled to them.

Having said that as far as WWs go you have a walk in the park. Sure she’s an unreasonable lunatic but that’s about the extent of it. There is a guy on here whose w has 3-4 boy friends and he’s being extorted by an unknown person.

As far as parents go I was raised by a narcissist and an avoidant. Pretty one only wanted to talk about himself and the other thought nothing was wrong. Guess what U we don’t get to pick our parents.

I have posted this before that my ex and I hammered Out our D in 15 minutes in the bedroom. Not much to figure out. 50/50 custody non negotiable, split assets 50/50, you take whatever out of the house except my 2 TVs. Boom done. Now I know all divorces are not equal but come on U.

This situation stinks I totally get it but it’s time to push it thru and start to move on.