Fair point neffer thank you! IT is time I read them again, what is a bit weird though is a lot of the things are for ppl that are before D. I need to sort in my head what is appropriate now.
Any tips on readings post D? Already have a few member-threads I am reading.

Anyway, an update:
After thinking about it I decided the butt-plug thing was crossing the line for me atp.
So I sent her a picture of the trash and wrote, "Im sure you can be more discreet than this."

She first answered. Yes I get that, but maybe you shouldnt be sending me a picture of it to showme.
Then she wrote:
But yea I get it.
I apologize....

I haven't replied and probably wont.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021