Fair point neffer thank you! IT is time I read them again, what is a bit weird though is a lot of the things are for ppl that are before D. I need to sort in my head what is appropriate now. Any tips on readings post D? Already have a few member-threads I am reading.
Anyway, an update: After thinking about it I decided the butt-plug thing was crossing the line for me atp. So I sent her a picture of the trash and wrote, "Im sure you can be more discreet than this."
She first answered. Yes I get that, but maybe you shouldnt be sending me a picture of it to showme. Then she wrote: But yea I get it. I apologize....
I haven't replied and probably wont.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021