So W and I had the chat. She chose mediation which we all probably expected. She said she wanted time to think about things but since I gave an ultimatum, she chose mediation. In the end, she still says she wants time which we all knew was going to happen. I kind of have to follow up on my word and schedule it. She told me she has been working on herself and things all this time. I dont see it but she seemed honest in this. It turned in to a 40 minute relationship chat.
She apologized for what she did but wasnt remorseful. Thinks divorcing is the hard route but its the one she wants to take. The convo actually pulled me a little closer to her though I'm sure it wasnt the same for her. She wants the family but isn't willing to work on it. Cant see herself being intimate again.
She listed out gripes with me, that I cant tell if she's expecting me to work on them or what. One is what Wayfarer already mentioned....expectations. Either way, she says something in her was destroyed and doesnt see how it can be fixed. I guess from here I start mediation then or do I give her time? If I give time, it looks like I am pursuing.
Last edited by Core; 04/14/2001:08 PM.
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
