I dont think we can help them in MLC or change the affair or their need to explore new possibilities

maybe if it were a mild transition, and we had awareness we could, but in full MLC
I dont believe anything we do can make a difference

Yes it helps when we let them be, and let them go
some may turn around especially if they are only on the edge of leaving

We tend to blame ourselves..if only we were this or that or we did this or that

Becoming a confident strong independent woman is our best bet
there is always a chance, they may see the light but even so, it will be a lot of work and very bumpy

stay safe!


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow