Scout's QLC journey #4

[Believe6]

Scout, Wow you are so very strong. What a great mom you are. The amount of restraint it takes to not say anything and to remember that your XH is the one who did this... well that is just amazing to me. Our kids do bring out the best in us, don't they?

I know it's hard to get your S back on his routine, but to provide extra cuddling? Well, when my kids were younger, I cherished those. Soon enough they won't want that and now that mine are teenagers, I have to force myself on them. They tolerate it now because they know their mom needs the affection since they see my H isn't giving me any. And he used to be the most affectionate person. He is still pretty affectionate with the kids, which I appreciate.

He isn't a typical monster. He's just withdrawn, depressed, and selfish. But at least with the kids and the dog he is pretty much as he's always been. Maybe more affectionate since he isn't like that with me anymore.

Anyway, thanks for continuing to share your journey. I don't know how you've stayed so strong and centered. I guess it comes with time and focus. Happy that you are so very strong for your S. Have a great rest of your week!